Since I was seven years old I have wanted to serve
a mission. I was the girl who got upset anytime they
heard that sisters weren't supposed to go on missions.
The time came closer to me being the correct age to
go, and I decided that I didn't want to be one of
those girls who went on a mission because she wasn't
married at the age of 21. So when I turned 20 I started
to pray about whether or not Heavenly Father wanted
me to go. After six months I finally received an answer
that I was not supposed to leave on a mission. Instead
I found a new job, bought a car, and went about my
life. The following year I found out that I had been
fired from my job. This news came very unexpectedly
and was surprising that I had received a pay raise
only a month before. When I asked why they were firing
me they told me the shoe wasn't fitting. The answer
didn't make me feel any better and I took the news
extremely hard.
That same night my friend Corrine and
I went to the movies. While there she asked me what
my plans were. I told her that I hadn't really had
a chance to think about it. She suggested that maybe
I should go on a mission. I told her that it wasn't
right for me. She said that it was something to think
about. Plus I knew my mother wouldn't be happy if
I decided to go considering that I had a car payment
and other financial obligations. The next day my mom
took me out to lunch at the Tiffin room. While we
were waiting for our food to arrive my mom asked me
what my plans were now that I no longer had a job.
I told her I wasn't sure. She then suggested to my
surprise that maybe I should consider a mission. This
left me reeling and so after lunch was over and we
returned home, I packed up my car and told my mom
I would call her when I got to wherever I was going.
I ended up in Ephraim, Utah and spent the weekend
with some friends that were going to school at Snow
College. After some time away with them and an entire
day spent at the Manti temple I knew what I should
be doing. I was going on a mission.
I set up an appointment that week with
my bishop. When I told him what I wanted to do he
got this stunned look on his face and said, "Uh
oh." I looked at him and was terrified that he
was going to tell me I shouldn't go. I asked him what
the matter was and he responded with, "I have
never done this before. I have no idea what to do."
I started laughing because I was so relieved. He got
his book out and did some reading and by the time
I left his office I had the paperwork in my hands.
After all the appointments, physicals,
and other things that filling out your paperwork requires
I finally turned my papers in and patiently (ok not
so much) waited for my call to arrive. It arrived
on a Wednesday afternoon. I had gotten off work early
and as I pulled onto my street I could see a large
white envelope sticking out of the mailbox and I knew
it had arrived. I was so excited that I could barely
contain myself. I called my mom and said, "It's
here, it's here, it's here!" She responded with
"Don't Open It!" I locked the call in the
house and went over to a friend's to keep myself from
opening it. I picked up my mom from work and we went
home. I still had to wait another hour while we waited
for people to come over. When the time arrived I was
sitting on the couch. I opened up my call and it said
that I would be serving in the Indiana Indianapolis
Mission. I just sat there as tears welled up in my
eyes. I knew instantly that I was supposed to serve
the people in Indiana thanks to the confirmation of
the Spirit.
I was set apart on May 11th. My entire
bishopric and stake presidency came which really added
to the experience. The stake president had each member
of the bishopric share an experience from thier mission.
Saying good-bye to everyone proved hard. Especially
to the Margetts family. Thier daughter Madison stole
my shoes and hid them and then told me that I couldn't
leave. It really touched my heart.
I entered the MTC on May 12th. My mom, Alene, &
Betsy accompanied me to the MTC. On the way we had
lunch at T.G.I. Friday's with Abe & his sister
Marjorie. I wanted lunch to end quickly, because I
was so excited to get going. The only thing that dampened
my excitement was seeing my mom and Alene crying as
we watched "Called to Serve". I spent the
next three weeks in the M.T.C. We did all the traditional
things that missionaries do from taking our pictures
in front of the map and through the post office box,
to having a cereal eat off in the cafeteria, to working
in the call center. I flew to Indiana on June 1st.
Let me share the highlights of my mission
and the lessons that I learned. First I had the most
amazing mission president and wife. President &
Sister Walker were such a blessing to me. I always
felt that I was unconditionally loved by this amazing
couple. I was blessed to have them around for my entire
mission. President was such a guide to me as he led
me spiritually and helped me see the big picture and
believe in myself. I shared a bond with Sister Walker
as I was able to get to know her and be blessed by
her teachings and love. I know that Heavenly Father
knew I would need this amazing couple during my time
in Indiana.
I had the opportunity to serve in five
different areas of the state. My first area I served
in was Muncie, which is about an hour north of Indianapolis
and is the home of Ball State University. My companions
were Sister Hall & Sister Bitters. We mostly worked
with the young single adults in the area and spent
a lot of time working on campus.
My next two areas were my shortest areas.
The first one was in Greenwood, which is just south
of Indy. I served with Sister Murdoch and we lived
with the Sweezy family. The Sweezy's had two little
boys and were so much fun. My next area was in the
heart of Indy at Speedway. Yep, it is where the Indianapolis
500 race is held each year. I remember being out on
my bike and hearing the race cars going at full speed.
Here I served in a three-some with Sisters Hein &
Pace. We were the three stooges. I was curly and loved
to eat pie! This area we lived with sweet Sister Leonard.
She always made the best food.
My next area was in the southern part
of the state near the border of Illinois in Terre
Haute. Terre Haute is lovingly dubbed "The Land
of Seven Smells". It is the home of seven types
of factories whose scents fill the area. I personally
loved the smell of fresh bread in the mornings. My
companion was Sister Gorow and we lived underneath
two older Catholic ladies and next door to Joyce &
Charlie. Charlie wasn't a member of the church and
he always called us the nuns. We spent a lot of time
in their home and really came to love that amazing
couple.
My last area was in the northern part
of the state in a town called Huntington, which was
on the outskirts of Fort Wayne. My companions were
Sisters Gordon, Lazane, & Goletz. Here we lived
with Ned & Linda. Neither were members, but Linda's
daughters were members. Living with Ned & Linda
was fabulous. Ned always teased me and quickly dubbed
me Sherm. It was while in this area that I learned
that I had broken my foot. After several months of
trying to get it to heal naturally, my doctor finally
recommended surgery. Due to this situation I ended
up returning home three months early, which proved
to be a lot harder than, I thought it would be.
I am grateful for the opportunity that
my Heavenly Father gave me to serve His children in
that beautiful state. During those months I learned
how to truly pray and to recognize answers to my prayers.
How everything happens in the Lord's time and we just
need to be patient and apply some faith. That we truly
are blessed to have the knowledge of eternal families.
I learned and grew so much during my fifteen months
as a missionary. This time in my life has truly helped
mold me into the woman I am today.
|